Human Sexuality
Which of the above definitions of sex/sexuality most fit you? While those two definitions are, of course, gross exaggerations, they contain significant truth, even today.
Women have received more negative training and sexual education about their human sexuality than men. To have a primary belief that one’s human sexuality is serious first and pleasurable a distant second causes the loss of much pleasure in many sexual processes.
That sexuality belief also leads to much putting down of men for their “frivolous” sex behavior, not just because of serious consequences that men might be overlooking but because “human sex should be serious and you men don’t treat it seriously enough.” In other words, to be lusty, wild or playful is not OK human sexuality.
